https://www.dckreider.com/blog-theological-musings/living-in-a-fallen-world-sometimes-necessetates-that-god-use-means-he-otherwise-wouldnt-want-to-see-divorce-in-matthew-19
Living in a fallen world sometimes necessetates that God use means he otherwise wouldn't want to....
The argument here is that if God can allow something like divorce in a fallen world - due to the hardness of hearts - then perhaps violence is a means God can...