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Autostraddle is a news and entertainment site for LGBTQ+ women and other trans people; covering dating, fashion, politics, television, film and whimsy for a...

First dates, lesbian sex positions, online dating, how to make gay friends, dealing with your ex, tough relationship advice — we're the experts.

Mar 6, 2024 - Kristen Stewart really wanted to nail the nailing in 'Love Lies Bleeing." Also: Aida Osman stars in Teen Vogue's Young Hollywood Issue, One...

Dec 4, 2019 - Lena Waithe's Twenties trailer is here, more Generation Q news than you can honestly probably use, Laura Dern on The Puppy Episode, and Ryan Murphy's...

Nov 15, 2025 - The queer aunt wonders how best to help her sister's trans daughter. Also; advice on how to maintain your creative pursuits after moving in with your...

Nov 14, 2025 - Never underestimate the tenacity of a depressed lesbian writer with her shirt buttoned all the way up and nothing left to lose.

Jul 31, 2023 - 6:30 is my favorite time of day.

Oct 31, 2025 - I’ve hitchhiked twice, and neither time was with a driver I would describe as particularly normal.

Jan 6, 2022 - Congratulations Cassandra Peterson on this incredible news! Elvira came out as gay, and just in time for the Halloween season, like god what a fucking icon.

Apr 30, 2025 - Looking to fuck your friends without fucking up the friendship? Let's rebrand Cuffing Season as Sex With Friends season and get down to it.

Oct 6, 2025 - From Sapphic vampires to monstrous mommis to queer slashers and beyond — here's all the queer horror to stream this October.

Dec 19, 2025 - Here's everything you need to know about Marjorie Taylor Greene’s House bill HR 3492, which seeks to criminalize providing transgender-related...

Sep 16, 2025 - The past week brought on a lot more resistance from trans people and their allies, especially in the courts, but it also brought with it some potential new...

Nov 1, 2025 - The sex you're currently having is fine, but the sex with her was incredible? Also we help a reader whose girlfriend won't stop singing show tunes!

Sep 3, 2025 - September is here, and with it comes a bunch of new LGBTQ+ book releases — from horror to rom-coms and everything in between!

Aug 26, 2024 - As I begin my career as a therapist, I have to hide parts of myself.

Mar 30, 2023 - Autostraddle runs on reader support. If you want to give us a donation, you can do that here! Donate to Autostraddle! Donor Wall Give With PayPal The

Apr 30, 2020 - "oh yeah we haven't even scraped the surface of pandemic sex dreams"

Aug 20, 2025 - The most jarring parts of my breakups have been the number of people who I will never see again.

Nov 5, 2025 - Advice for suddenly feeling unattracted to your girlfriend, having your first ever crush on a cis dude, and finding a sex therapist.

May 1, 2021 - In New York, every time you step out your door, human interaction is offered to you. The most magical thing about New York, about "High Maintenance,"...

May 28, 2024 - It’s (un)officially the first weekend of summer, and so there's no better time to unleash my super power: Thinking of every possible question, from...

Aug 27, 2025 - Drag is an artform and after a decade, nobody knows it better than Sasha Velour. The 10-year anniversary run of NightGowns kicks off tonight and runs through...

Oct 28, 2025 - It’s astonishing that even with so much public awareness, legislative initiative, and psychological research, these facilities still exist.

Feb 26, 2025 - Google's AI Overview feature is a massive threat to media, small publishers and the planet, and also it's our fault that it outed Donkey Kong.

Jan 25, 2026 - Besides the more obvious implications of the bills, both of them are written so unclearly that it is difficult to know exactly how they will be enforced.

May 19, 2021 - The sun might leave us for 3-6 months out of the year, but my microwave never will.

Jun 27, 2021 - How to have good sex even when you're feeling dysphoric, how to tell a partner about trauma, how to tell if your argument style is healthy and more.

Jan 2, 2026 - Spice up your first date conversation with these 50+ unique questions across various categories like chill, pop culture, strange, spicy, and more. Perfect for...

Jul 16, 2025 - Senior Staff Kylo Freeman CEO of For Them + AutostraddleNew York, NY Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya Managing EditorOrlando, FL Riese Bernard Co-Founder /

Dec 18, 2025 - "The Trader Joe’s tilapia actually slaps I highly recommend!"

First dates, lesbian sex positions, online dating, how to make gay friends, dealing with your ex, tough relationship advice — we're the experts.

Nov 8, 2025 - How can you pretend to like meetings you're certain could've been an email? Also — tips for dating in a second language.

Apr 21, 2021 - It's a miracle that I figured out how to use Zoom.

Nov 17, 2025 - Let's tour your Dreamworld. Also, get out your journals for some late-autumn reflection.

Autostraddle is the expert on Queer television with your guide to all the best TV with lesbian, bisexual, queer and/or transgender characters.

Jul 1, 2025 - Queer Floridian Juan Barquin talks to fellow queer Floridian Sasha Wortzel about documentary River of Grass and the beauty of the Everglades.

May 1, 2021 - During a time like this, the impulse to want your ex is like the impulse some may have to want their mom. It’s carnal.

Mar 6, 2022 - If ya can't say it, sing it!

Oct 14, 2025 - One of our most influential and remarkable trans queer elders — Miss Major Griffin-Gracy — has died at the age of 78.

Mar 15, 2022 - "I felt disconnected from my art because I had part time and full time jobs that took up most of my time in the world. I wrote on scraps of paper during...

Feb 12, 2025 - Chicago, Winter 2015. I'm doing a cringe-worthy, cliche version of Living In Chicago In Your Early Twenties.

Nov 30, 2025 - What will happen to you in a gay af Hallmarky holiday movie? Take the quiz to find out!

Jul 31, 2025 - Whether leaving the U.S. or trying to get back, queer people in international long distance relationships feel less at ease to travel.

Aug 18, 2025 - Hey there science nerds! This is like taking high school biology all over again! Except this time when we explore nature, it's going to be truly, deeply...

Mar 20, 2021 - 17 organizations dedicated to supporting Asian and Pacific Islander communities, sex workers, and immigrants rights that you can support.

Nov 1, 2025 - In honor of Overcompensating being renewed, find out which character you are! They're literally ALL hot messes!!!!!

Oct 31, 2025 - Sophia Bush is back on Grey's (for now at least), making sure we remember that there are still gays among us, despite our recent losses.

May 1, 2021 - So many gays in superhero suits and space!

May 19, 2021 - Use the best chocolate you can find. Queer life is hard and you deserve it.

Aug 22, 2025 - What's the best way to approach dating when you're looking to co-parent? And is "looking for younger women" one of those ways?

Apr 17, 2021 - Donzell and I had so much fun shooting this sketch that I turned to him and said, “I want to write a series of bizarre and inappropriate situations that our...

Sep 22, 2021 - Is there anything more dystopian than twirling around in falling ash?

Nov 17, 2025 - I used to chase warmth in ways that weren’t always safe for me — staying too long, giving too much, confusing chaos for chemistry. These days, warmth means...

May 1, 2021 - All the glittery heart-driven DIY gay, lesbian, trans, and queer porn to watch right now.

Nov 20, 2025 - For trans people who currently hold unexpired U.S. passports, the State Department has updated their policy to say they can continue to use them until it’s...

Jul 22, 2024 - I didn't grow up knowing anyone who had a traditional garden.

Nov 5, 2025 - Is this ever an okay way for a poly relationship to begin?

Apr 4, 2025 - HBO was an early pioneer of LGBTQ content and here is the 25 best of what HBO Max has to offer fans of lesbian, bisexual and queer stories.

Nov 1, 2025 - You get a bad feeling in your bones every time you see your niece's new copy of 'The Philosopher's Stone.'

Aug 18, 2020 - Taylor and Kelsey's whirlwind tour through Texas, replete with kittens, a delightful sex-worker named Rooster and the ballad of the naked woman with oars...

Dec 5, 2024 - Nearly two decades after the Twilight films began, it’s clear this franchise’s queerest impulses were found in its beginning and its ending.

Oct 23, 2025 - Gay WNBA players are the best thing about the best sports league on earth! Here are all 41 gay players, and where to follow them this season.

Feb 1, 2026 - Your hands are looking very lesbian today.

Aug 25, 2025 - Don’t just look at your local politicians’ Reels. Look up their public voting records.

Dec 3, 2025 - Find out what the team members of Autostraddle and For Them want this holiday season in our queer gift guide 2025!

Nov 1, 2025 - Also, how to support your straight friends without sounding like a man-hating lesbian?

Oct 17, 2025 - I thought I had to choose between being a survivor and being sensual.

Nov 5, 2025 - Sally Wainwright's latest follows a group of menopausal women who start a rock band — hitting many of the Wainright's favorite themes.

Nov 28, 2013 - So many ways to get your language learning on! Enjoy, queermos. Et bonne chance!

Nov 1, 2025 - Your wife thinks your maternity leave plan is "crazy." Also, how to navigate potential imbalances in a slightly open relationship.

May 12, 2025 - You can blame it on avoidant attachment or being a Sagittarius, but exclusion can be incredible. I love being a third wheel.

Oct 6, 2025 - The fate of the queers of Grey's Anatomy, Ginny & Georgia teases upcoming season, Cardi B's album goes double platinum, Elvira's cookbook,...

Sep 22, 2021 - Hayley Kiyoko’s first ever Vogue shoot! And let us all put our hands together in a spooky homosexual round of applause for the newly out legend, Elvira!