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America's premier sex advice columnist takes on edgier-than-ever sex-positive topics with his signature candor in his first illustrated collection of...

Nov 21, 2025 - On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual...

May 8, 2025 - Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, a podcaster, an author, and has appeared on numerous television shows.

In Skipping Towards Gomorrah, Dan Savage eviscerates the right-wing conservatives as he commits each of the Seven Deadly Sins himself (or tries to) and...

Mar 25, 2025 - Savage Love is the home of Dan Savage’s no-nonsense sex and relationship advice—Savage Love columns, the Lovecast, and unfiltered takes on love, kink, and more.

Nov 25, 2025 - I’m gay and go to a small liberal arts school. I have a crush on this one guy, but he brought up — unprompted — that he’s Aro/Ace. I really...

Nov 27, 2025 - Like most of my readers, I’m taking the day off — Happy Thanksgiving to all who masticate — but we have readers (and Magnum Subs!) all over...

Nov 7, 2025 - This week, meet a woman who finally, after YEARS of persistence, has learned how to squirt. Practice makes perfect, and now she has mastered the messy art....

Feb 12, 2026

So come on in, browse through our categories, and get ready for an unforgettable Dan After Dark And Dale Savage - Semi-public Sex With And Labs - Say Bear Porn...

Feb 13, 2026

Nov 14, 2025 - Struggle Session is a bonus column where I respond to comments — just a few — from readers, listeners, haters, and fans. I also share a letter that...

Sep 26, 2006 - Dan Savage’s mother wants him to get married. His boyfriend, Terry, says “no thanks” because he doesn’t want to act like a straight...

Dec 12, 2025 - It was her first time pegging a man, though she’d dreamed of it for years. Dream fulfilled. How did it go? What did he wear? Who brought the gear? All of...

May 8, 2025 - Subscribe for full access to Savage Love, Magnum Savage Lovecast, Sex & Politics, and more. Dan’s graphic, pragmatic, and humorous advice has changed the...

Nov 18, 2025 - The person who introduced me to you — my wife — is the source of my woes. We have a child and a lovely home and financial security. But the issue is my...

Dec 30, 2025 - Dear Readers: I’m away this week — I’m on a mountaintop with my out-laws — so no new Savage Love today. This column originally ran on November 6,...

Jan 13, 2026 - I am a 45-year-old femme-presenting genderqueer AFAB person. When I have romantic relationships with cis het men, I’ve noticed two general types: They...

Feb 18, 2026 - My partner and I are both AFAB nonbinary queers in our mid-30s and have been together a long time. We don’t believe lifelong monogamy is realistic. We even...