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HAVE ONE'S CAKE AND EAT IT TOO Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster
The meaning of HAVE ONE'S CAKE AND EAT IT TOO is to have or enjoy the good parts of something without having or dealing with the bad parts. How to use have...
have one s cake and eat it