https://livingwithlimerence.com/seven-signs-of-toxic-limerence/
Seven signs of toxic limerence - Living with Limerence
Feb 6, 2026 - This week's YouTube video is all about how to tell when you've been limerent for too long: https://youtu.be/BnTOkHFTQRs?si=eqhp_LIcujSPBf8V Half the population...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/case-study-held-back-by-limerence/
Case study: held back by limerence - Living with Limerence
Jul 30, 2025 - Today’s case study is from Owen, who has begun to realise the unexpected impact that limerence has had on his life. I’ve never been in a relationship or really...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/internal-versus-external-drivers-of-limerence/
Internal versus external drivers of limerence - Living with Limerence
Aug 2, 2024 - One of the core principles for limerence recovery here at LwL is that limerence is happening in your head. At the most fundamental level, limerence is a...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/on-the-scientific-evidence-for-limerence/
On the scientific evidence for limerence - Living with Limerence
Nov 20, 2024 - One of the challenges in writing about limerence from a neuroscience perspective is that there is very little original research on limerence, specifically....
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-christmas-limerence/
Coffeehouse: Christmas limerence - Living with Limerence
Dec 20, 2024 - It's that time of year when it always feels as though things should be winding down for Christmas, but in fact, Christmas preparations are just being added to...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/guest-post-fictional-limerence/
Guest post: fictional limerence - Living with Limerence
Aug 16, 2024 - Today's post is a bit out of the ordinary. My wife offered to write a guest post following my
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/the-madness-of-limerence/
The madness of limerence - Living with Limerence
Sep 27, 2024 - In the last post I made the case for limerence causing a collapse of self-discipline, which I termed
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/could-ozempic-cure-limerence/
Could Ozempic “cure” limerence? - Living with Limerence
Mar 6, 2026 - That might seem like a clickbait title, but it’s actually a serious question. Although limerence is not a disease to be cured, it can certainly have a negative...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/the-effects-of-modern-dating-on-limerence/
The effects of modern dating on limerence - Living with Limerence
Mar 7, 2025 - I recently spoke to Gabriela Houston on her podcast, the Gabriela Houston Project, all about limerence. https://youtu.be/byYYlRv53wE?si=OK3zRnrpHxWZU4aP Aside...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/some-interesting-questions-about-limerence/
Some interesting questions about limerence - Living with Limerence
Apr 25, 2025 - A couple of days ago, I held a launch event for my book, Smitten, at Five Leaves - an excellent independent bookshop in Nottingham. It was a fun evening. My...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-frontal-lobes-and-love/
Coffeehouse: frontal lobes and love - Living with Limerence
Feb 20, 2026 - Another visit to the LwL coffeehouse - the open thread where any topic of conversation is fair game. Even Gossip To kick off the discussion this month, here's...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/person-addiction/
Person addiction - Living with Limerence
Jan 20, 2025 - Note: this is an updated version of an older post Limerence is an altered state of mind. That means its ultimate origins must lie in the brain. When Dorothy...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-entanglements/
Limerence entanglements - Living with Limerence
Oct 25, 2024 - One of the defining features of limerence is the soul-aching desire to be close to your limerent object. That’s because limerence is a drive to form a pair...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/resources/
Resources - Living with Limerence
Oct 7, 2025 - This page collects some of the key posts, guides, courses and links for those labouring on the limerence treadmill. For new arrivals: For those new to the...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/a-new-era-for-lwl/
A new era for LwL - Living with Limerence
Jul 31, 2024 - Big moment this, for me. I've been blogging here at LwL for seven years, under a pseudonym. There were various reasons why, but looking back on the first ever...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-book-launch/
Coffeehouse: book launch - Living with Limerence
Jan 23, 2026 - Another month flies by, which means it’s time for a visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Where we dazzle the philosophers with the brilliance of our insights...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-the-influence-of-environment/
Coffeehouse: the influence of environment - Living with Limerence
Aug 8, 2024 - Another visit to the open thread that is the LwL coffeehouse, where any topic for conversation is welcome. Silky smooth Today's ice-breaker topic is how the...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/how-addictive-is-your-lo/
How addictive is your LO? - Living with Limerence
Dec 11, 2025 - One of the key principles for recovery from limerence here at LwL is: limerence is happening in your head. I stick by that principle, as it's both true and...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-choosing-a-partner/
Coffeehouse: choosing a partner - Living with Limerence
Aug 14, 2025 - Another trip to the LwL coffeehouse open thread, where conversations ramble and wisdom is sometimes uncovered among the cinnamon rolls. Where else would it be?...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-love-is-not-blind/
Coffeehouse: love is not blind - Living with Limerence
Apr 17, 2026 - Another month rolls around, and brings another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse endless thread. I'll never tire of the stimulation To kick off the...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/new-project-dealing-with-limerence-in-marriage/
New project: dealing with limerence in marriage - Living with Limerence
Jun 28, 2024 - I've been blogging recently about the impact of limerence on long-term relationships, and the devastating effect it can have on a marriage. It's been sobering...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/about/
About - Living with Limerence
Sep 10, 2024 - Welcome to living with limerence. If you are: Infatuated with someone you don't want to be infatuated with Beginning to realise that
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-bonding/
Coffeehouse: bonding - Living with Limerence
Jun 13, 2025 - The monthly trip to the LwL virtual coffeehouse is here. Your stimulant, sir This week I just have a few announcements for the patrons before the conversations...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/a-new-way-to-look-at-love/
A new way to look at love - Living with Limerence
Sep 25, 2025 - Here's a recording of the talk I gave a couple of weeks ago in Harrogate, to a general audience who were not necessarily familiar with the concept of...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/evolutionary-traps-for-limerents/
Evolutionary traps for limerents - Living with Limerence
Jun 27, 2025 - From time to time, the topic of monogamy and human mating strategies comes up in discussions about limerence. Obviously mating behaviour will have a big...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/big-ideas-in-intimate-spaces/
Big ideas in intimate spaces - Living with Limerence
Sep 5, 2025 - Quick update post this week. This thursday Sep 11th, I’ll be giving a talk on limerence at the Berwin’s North Salon in Harrogate, UK. These events are a great...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/happy-new-year/
Happy New Year - Living with Limerence
Jan 3, 2025 - It's 2025! Resolutions start tomorrow The Christmas to New Year lull is a wonderfully lazy time for me, so no blog post this week, except to say that I haven't...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/why-do-workplace-crushes-happen/
Why do workplace crushes happen? - Living with Limerence
Oct 18, 2024 - Workplace crushes are very common. In the past, before the advent of dating apps and social media, workplace relationships were also very common. Many people...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-open-house/
Coffeehouse: open house - Living with Limerence
Oct 22, 2025 - It's been a while since the last check in at the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Now with completely convincing decor and customers just like you'd see in real life...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/questions-to-ask-if-you-are-married-but-limerent-for-someone-else/
Questions to ask if you are married but limerent for someone else - Living with Limerence
Mar 17, 2025 - This week's video is about that most painful of limerent situations: what to do if you are married but limerent for someone else....
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-preorder-bonuses-for-smitten/
Coffeehouse: Preorder bonuses for Smitten - Living with Limerence
Mar 21, 2025 - Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse, this time with a big advertising hoarding in the doorway! As a thank you to everyone who pre-orders the...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/coffeehouse-you-probably-dont-have-a-personality-disorder/
Coffeehouse: you probably don’t have a personality disorder - Living with Limerence
Nov 29, 2025 - How's that for an arresting welcome to the LwL virtual coffeehouse? Hi. I've got something important to tell you. David, author of the Wikipedia page on...
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https://livingwithlimerence.com/playing-with-fire/
Playing with fire - Living with Limerence
May 9, 2025 - Note: this is an updated version of an earlier post It's not an easy thing to abstain from bliss. For limerents in a long-term relationship who are suddenly...
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