https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/10/diy-fist-dildo/
Missed National Fisting Day? Rife here with a storytime DIY fun bonding or gift idea, as the gift giving season is around the corner. So the year is 2018, and...
fist dildodiycreatesugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2016/01/new-york/
Fall is absolutely my favorite time of year. Fall is New York's very best season. Let me always visit New York in the fall. There are so few dogs in New York...
new yorkwayslookingsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/07/at-daddys-feet/
Content warning: the characters in this story are consenting adults. This story contains sex, explicit daddy/boy language and roles, and sexual foot play....
guest postdaddyfeetrife
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/06/milk-three/
Content warning: lactation, mama/boy role play, dominance/submission, desperation. Start here and read parts one & two if you haven't. I’m eager when I get...
part threemilksugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2019/12/let-it-all-go-boy-2/
Content: mommy/boy role play, sex. All characters are consenting adults. Read Part One here. ** Mommy: I pull away. Stand up, looking down at you. “You need...
part twoguest postletgoboy
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2018/08/intimacy/
The world is tumbling down around you. The bedroom is full of boxes: papers from college and writing classes, the books you are still going to keep after...
bedsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/08/protocol-ideas/
When I started in D/s relationships (12+ years ago, now!), I was so thrilled to have someone who would say that they would do what I told them to do, or who...
protocolideastrysugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/11/rkb-interview/
Rachel Kramer Bussel is writing a book on how to write erotica, titled How to Write Erotica, and it should be published either in late 2022 or early 2023 from...
writingeroticaactivisminterview
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/10/this-isnt-new/
Content warning: Daddy/boy dirty talk, D/s, discussions of dysphoria (particularly bottom dysphoria), lots of musings about strap-ons and butch trans dick,...
newsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/02/kink-books-by-black-authors/
In honor of Black History/Futures Month, Here are some books about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics written by Black authors. I'm listing links to Bookshop.org...
kinkbooksblackauthorssugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/05/daddy-kimberly-dark/
excerpt from The Daddies by Kimberly DarkBrill | Sense (October 24, 2018) Content: Sex, daddy/girl language, bondage. All characters are 18 years of age or...
first timeguest postdaddykimberlydark
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/01/golden-hour-anna-sansom/
Content: daddy/girl, age play, spanking, fingering, good girl. All characters are consenting adults. We work different shifts: I’m on the early train and at...
golden hourannasugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/01/write-the-erotica/
Reading and writing erotica can be an act of rebellion. Even though erotica is pretty mainstream, in a lot of ways, it still has a reputation as a bit
writeeroticawantreadworld
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/02/ds-support/
I'm writing this in February 2021, eleven months after the start of the global COVID pandemic. So when I say
hard timesideassupport
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/08/first-time-poem/
she asks if I want to come over to her house after class and she will make us lunch. after a week of flirting hands brushing thighs under the table testing...
first timegirlsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/06/rodeoh-slyder/
I'm obsessed. Look, the dildo market for the past twenty years has been a wild ride. In the late 90s, when I started buying dildos, the only options were...
cockconfidencerodeohreviewsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/02/queer-kink-lineage/
In the Writing Spicy class this spring, I invited people to honor the names of the people who came before them, people who wrote or created content around...
lineageancestryqueerkinkyerotica
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/04/lets-watch-a-porno/
Content: D/s dynamics, control, orders between Sir/girl dynamic; voyeurism, strap-on sex, objectification, alcohol. I yawned as I padded into the living room....
guest postwatchpornolouisekane
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/10/show-me-how-bad-you-want-me/
Content: boot worship, boot play, boot fucking, boot licking, dirty talk, wetness, sir/girl, teasing, begging
showbadwantsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2023/01/best-of-2022/
2022 was a huge transition year for me. In April, I changed the Patreon from per-thing to per-month, which significantly helped me work on longer form...
bestsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/03/ble-lammy-finalist/
Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 is a finalist for a 2021 Lambda Literary Award! I'm so thrilled! much credit of course goes to the incredible writers...
best lesbianeroticavolumefinalist
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/05/what-i-will-call-you/
Content: Daddy/boy, boot sucking/licking, boot play, kicking, desperation, humiliation play, crawling, cock play, caning, impact, making daddy proud Boy. That...
guest postcallk
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/07/ms-statement/
Content: Discussion of the uses of the words master and slave in a consensual kink context, the politics of using them in community, and the harm they cause. A...
steppingawaylanguagesugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/12/meeting-jason/
Content note: rough sex, name calling (faggot, slut), D/s play. I looked up at him, trying to read his face. I couldn’t tell if he seemed pleased with my...
guest postmeetingjasonmarcelsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/01/spicy-showcase-dcw/
Here's the replay for the Spicy Showcase at Drunken! Careening! Writers! Queer Kink Erotica at Drunken! Careening! Writers! Thursday, December 14, 2023, 4-6pm...
videospicyshowcasedrunkenwriters
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/08/elust-188/
Erotic Non-Fiction Morgan Destera, After 10 Months Tantric Sexual Healing, The Alchemy of Touch: Re-Sacralising Sensuality in a Desensitised World through...
elustincludesstorysay
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/09/dont-swallow/
Content: butch/femme, blow job, spit play, cum play, rough, praise kink, 'good girl', masturbation, penetration (mouth), praise, strap-on Red comes over after...
swallowsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/04/all-villain-all-bully/
Content: slut, slapping, consensual non-consent, degradation, crying after sex, unhealthy relationship, force, sadism If they knew what they wanted, it would...
guest postvillainbullykelhardy
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/08/ds-check-ins/
An essential tool, in my opinion and experience in D/s, is having a regular check in with each other to reflect on what's happening, give and receive honest...
check insuserelationship
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2019/03/worship-poem/
I need your worship, boy —come home and put yourself under the sole of my boot.Flatten yourself beneath me. IfI toe you off the floor, only then is that your...
poemworshipworthsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/01/preparation/
wherever there is a place for you to rest, to weep, to jerk off in the middle of the night, or to get to sleep, I will do everything I can to make the bed...
preparationsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2018/12/tell-you/
I want to tell you that all of the band aids on your fingers are not for nothing. That the glass shards you are weekly excavating from the soles of your feet...
wanttellsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/04/aftermath/
We’re all bracing for the unknown aftermath. We’re in the disaster; we’ve been it for thirteen months. But we’re starting to feel it stir. The...
aftermathsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/07/stepping-up-ds/
I don't know about you all, but I have a bit more energy for D/s these days. It's been a seriously rough and emotional year — with the pandemic, of course,...
toolssteppingsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/11/switch/
CN: masturbation, zoom dates, some dirty talk including slurs (bitch, cunt, whore), D/s and power dynamics. All characters are over 18 and consenting adults. I...
switchsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/02/fearless-relationship-inventory/
This has been such a difficult year for relationships. Sir and I have been going through some stuff and decided it was time to take a
guest postfearlessrelationshipinventoryrife
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/06/bad-erotica/
Y'all. People are out there getting published with this kind of writing in actual books (and being paid actual money for it)!!! I found this on Facebook,...
someone elsewritesworseeroticapromise
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/06/sea-water/
I’m waiting for the green flash along the water’s edge, toes touching the waves. they say you can see it for just a split second. you, on the red towel,...
sea watersugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/01/sun-baked-deck/
when we lived in the big brown house with the sun-baked deck too hot to walk out there barefoot though I did it anyway to get the laundry and water the...
sunbakeddecksugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/10/beg-for-it/
collaboration between Juneboi, Jezebel Jett, Lucy Rose, Sinclair Sexsmith, Sixten Black, & SJ Content warnings: previously negotiated power dynamics, D/s,...
guest postbegcollaborativequickiewriting
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/05/ten-erotic-films/
This is not at all intended to be a comprehensive list — there are hundreds of erotic films and novels out there, many of which are really good. These are,...
erotic filmstenbettershadesgrey
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/02/writing-spicier-questions/
As I've been inviting folks to attend the online erotica writing group, I'm hearing a lot of this:
corewritingspicyphilosophiessugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/09/youll-take-it/
Content: flogger, whip, beating (fists), slapping, face slapping, suffering, skin breaking (brief mention of blood), biting, crying, catharsis, safewording....
takewhateverdish
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/05/listen-to-your-skin/
In March 2021, I read some erotica for the reading series Listen To Your Skin, which has some featured readers and then an open mic where anyone can read....
listenskineroticareadingrecording
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/07/climax-by-rife/
She moaned a deep breath and let it out sharply between her teeth. She could feel every muscle tense, trusty tawny fibers flexing under her soft belly’s...
guest postclimaxrifesugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/08/theoreads-spicy-showcase-2024/
https://youtu.be/W7Pruim43Ss Theo Reads Presents: Spicy Showcase Sunday, December 1, 2024 4pm PT / 7pm ET featuring Tobi Hill-Meyer hosted by Titus Androgynous...
theoreadspresentswritingspicy
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/10/jack-harrison-chapter-1/
This is chapter 1 of the unpublished, unedited, untitled novel that I wrote for Nanowrimo a few years ago. I'm starting up Nanowrimo for the 5th time tomorrow...
urgeschapteruntitledunpublishednovel
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/01/spicy-showcase-sugar/
Here's the replay for the Sugar & Spice Spicy Showcase! Sugar & Spice: Queer Kink Erotica Reading Sunday, December 17, 2023, 10am PT / 1pm ET hosted by Stina...
videosugarspicespicyqueer
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2018/03/king-of-disks/
it is enough to have gone through this ordeal it is enough to have sought the diamond hard and bright within it is enough to have sat still and let the pain...
kingsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/07/touch-me/
Content: spit, strap ons/prosthetics, desperation, neediness, fucking, D/s
saycouldtouchsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2025/01/calendar/
Here's where I'll be and what I'll be teaching — online & in person — in 2025! This page will be updated as things are added. Updated: October 9, 2025...
sinclaircalendarsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2022/03/the-right-one/
When I was 23, I wrote a poem called
rightonesugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/05/felix-ever-after/
I finished a book this week! I’ve been watching shows (Doctor Who and the Great Pottery Throw Down most recently, but it was the Umbrella Academy before...
readingincludingfelixever
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/11/titrate-my-urges-chapter-1-continued/
This is a continuation of chapter 1 of the unpublished, unedited, untitled novel. Read the first part of chapter 1 here. Content warning: breakup, sex scene,...
urgeschaptercontinuedsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2021/09/milk-two/
Content warning: lactation, mama/boy role play, dominance/submission, fingering. Read Part One here first. I’m losing myself in the curves of her. There is...
part twomilksugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/01/spicy-showcase-smut-peddlers/
Here's the replay for the Spicy Showcase at Smut Peddlers! Smut Peddlers: An evening of LGBTQ erotica Wednesday, December 6, 2023, 4pm PT / 7pm ET Hosted by...
videospicyshowcasesmutpeddlers
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/03/take-my-whip/
It’s Friday night and we keep this night blocked off on the calendar. 5:30 rolls around and you send me around the block to walk the dog once I wrap up my...
fantasy dateguest posttakewhipnight
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2024/01/calendar-2024/
Here's where I'll be and what I'll be teaching — online & in person — in 2024! This page will be updated as things are added. Updated: December 5,...
sinclaircalendarsugarbutch
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/07/ms-language-impact/
rife and I are starting to compile different statements and quotes from people in the leather, kink, and M/s communities about the use and impact of the terms
impactlanguagevoicescommunity
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/10/butch-nonbinary/
My own short answer to the question of whether butch is a nonbinary identity or not is, of course, it depends. Identities are personal. Someone butch might...
butchnonbinaryidentity
https://www.sugarbutch.net/2020/11/countdown-to-ble/
Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 comes out on December 8th! Here's what's out there so far. Talking to Bex & Kate on the Dildorks! I've been on the...
best lesbiancountdowneroticayearvolume