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[Video] Spicy Showcase at Smut Peddlers – Sugarbutch
Here's the replay for the Spicy Showcase at Smut Peddlers! Smut Peddlers: An evening of LGBTQ erotica Wednesday, December 6, 2023, 4pm PT / 7pm ET Hosted by...
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Wednesday, April 29th, 2026 is Sugarbutch's 20th anniversary. Wild!! Twenty years is a long time to be writing — let alone writing on a website, about sex,...
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You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out – Sugarbutch
Content: flogger, whip, beating (fists), slapping, face slapping, suffering, skin breaking (brief mention of blood), biting, crying, catharsis, safewording....
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Content warning: lactation, mama/boy role play, dominance/submission, fingering. Read Part One here first. I’m losing myself in the curves of her. There is...
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My Work in the Wild: Columns, Guest Posts, & Other Writings – Sugarbutch
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6 Kink Books by Black Authors – Sugarbutch
In honor of Black History/Futures Month, Here are some books about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics written by Black authors. I'm listing links to Bookshop.org...
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Listen To Your Skin: Erotica Reading [Recording] – Sugarbutch
In March 2021, I read some erotica for the reading series Listen To Your Skin, which has some featured readers and then an open mic where anyone can read....
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Advice to Myself – Sugarbutch
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Creating a D/s Training Wheel – Sugarbutch
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Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026) – Sugarbutch
For nearly two decades now, Sugarbutch has been a place where I write about queer kink, power exchange, gender, relationships, and the messy, beautiful ways we...
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Kink 101: Books, Websites, and Other Resources for Someone New to Kink – Sugarbutch
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Call for Submissions: Best Bi Erotica of the Year, Volume 3 – Sugarbutch
Please note: This is not a book edited by me, Sinclair! I'm just reposting to boost the signal. Contact Christian Pan directly with any questions. Bisexual...
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Write the Erotica You Want to Read In the World – Sugarbutch
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Writing Spicy: Online Erotica Writing Group – Sugarbutch
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Nonbinary Honorific Terms for a Dominant – Sugarbutch
In the nonbinary D/s groups I was holding last year, this question came up so frequently: What titles and honorifics do we want to use for a nonbinary...
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Announcing: The Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6 – Sugarbutch
Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6 is due out in January 2022, and includes 23 incredible stories, including some of my favorite erotica writers, like...
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She Is There In the Bed – Sugarbutch
The world is tumbling down around you. The bedroom is full of boxes: papers from college and writing classes, the books you are still going to keep after...
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Dee’s Big Daddies is a new venture from the folks at Uberrime, which is a favorite silicone maker of mine. Uberrime, in case you don’t already know, makes some...
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