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https://solopoly.net/2020/02/02/on-bringing-my-best-self-to-my-intimate-relationships/
On Bringing My Best Self to Relationships | Solo Poly
Here’s something I’ve learned through long experience practicing solo polyamory, that I really didn’t quite get otherwise: Since I prefer not to live with,...
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Kudos | Solo Poly
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Explanations and definitions | Solo Poly
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https://solopoly.net/2015/06/17/five-lessons-from-two-breakups-in-one-month/
Five lessons from two breakups in one month | Solo Poly
This month I’ve closed chapters on two intimate relationships: one I value very much, but ended up making me more sad than not; and a shorter one that started...
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https://solopoly.net/2013/02/05/couple-privilege-having-it-doesnt-necessarily-make-you-an-asshole-but-it-can/
Couple privilege: Having it doesn’t necessarily make you an asshole (but it might) | Solo Poly
It’s surprisingly hard to talk about any kind of privilege — and that’s no accident. Privilege lives in the background. It’s context more than content. It’s...
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Input needed | Solo Poly
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Context from my life | Solo Poly
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About this blog | Solo Poly
This blog is about what I’ve learned, and what I’m learning, about being in relationships that don’t follow the standard social script. In particular, I write...
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https://solopoly.net/2015/07/28/going-we-we/
Going “We We” | Solo Poly
Last night I was talking to a married poly guy, rather new (1-2 years) to polyamory. I was surprised to see that apparently he could not, for the life of him,...
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https://solopoly.net/2015/08/03/my-book-off-the-escalator-coming-late-2015-how-you-can-help/
My book, Off the Escalator: Coming late 2015 (& how you can help) | Solo Poly
This year I haven’t been writing so much in this blog. I’ve been busy with a new project — one that might interest, and benefit, far more people. This is the...
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https://solopoly.net/2017/02/21/february-only-get-my-book-chapter-on-solohood-free/
February only: Get my book chapter on solohood, FREE! | Solo Poly
Chapter 13 of my new book, Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life covers what it’s like to go solo. That is, to approach whatever kind...
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Research & data | Solo Poly
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https://solopoly.net/2015/02/12/the-girlfriend-closet-making-space-for-partners-in-a-solo-poly-home-guest-post/
The girlfriend closet: Making space for partners in a solo poly home (Guest post) | Solo Poly
By Seth Peck Growing up in Illinois, I didn’t get to see my grandmother much. She lived in the middle of Kansas, smack dab in the middle of the American...
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Solo Poly | Life and love from way, way off the Relationship Escalator
Life and love from way, way off the Relationship Escalator
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https://solopoly.net/2012/09/29/whats-a-metamour-on-my-terms/
What’s a metamour? On my terms | Solo Poly
“Metamour” is an especially weird bit of poly-speak. But still, I think it’s a surprisingly useful and important term…
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https://elizaember.wordpress.com/2025/12/03/solo-poly-manifesto-or-a-letter-to-my-former-therapist/
Solo Poly Manifesto – Or a letter to my former therapist – Polyamory Reflections
One of the crucial elements of navigating this breakup and what comes next is a good therapist. Right when the crisis started, even before I knew it was going...
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Data and statistics | Solo Poly
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https://solopoly.net/2014/06/08/does-your-relationship-roadmap-match-your-destination-guest-post/
Does your relationship roadmap match your destination? (Guest post) | Solo Poly
Guest post by Mitchell G The nice thing about traditional relationship models (such as the standard two-person exclusive relationship escalator) is that they...
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Questions | Solo Poly
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https://solopoly.net/2012/11/29/riding-the-relationship-escalator-or-not/
Riding the relationship escalator (or not) | Solo Poly
UPDATE FEBRUARY 2017: I’ve just published a new book based on this unexpectedly popular post. Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life...
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