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My Friend Rejected Me, And Now I Don't Know What We Are! - Paging Dr. NerdLove
They caught feelings for a friend and co-worker. He doesn't feel the same way. What does this mean for their friendship and what does that make them now?
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Why Do I Fail at Making Friends As An Adult? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's trying to meet new people as an adult and everyone has time for everyone BUT him. Why is he having such a hard time making new friends?
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5 Ways To Become Someone Women Want To Date - Paging Dr. NerdLove
I spend a lot of time working with men who want to get better at dating women. This ranges from guys who’re trying to recover from a bad break-up, guys who...
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Private Coaching - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Apr 6, 2026 - Private Coaching Frequently Asked Questions: How Does This Work? We’ll schedule a 60 minute one-on-one session via Google Meet. We’ll work out what topics you...
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Five Reasons Why Your Life Isn't Going To Get Better - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Nov 24, 2014 - Cold hard truth: you're sabotaging your own progress. Until you learn how to get out of your own way, your attempts at self-improvement are going to fail.
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How Do I Get A Life? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's been stuck in a loop of
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How Do I Stop Being So Bitter About Women? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Even after working on himself, a hellish breakup and years of celibacy have left him angry and bitter. How can he finally let go of his resentment?
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5 Times When You Shouldn't Be Dating - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Sometimes the most important dating advice you can get is understanding when you SHOULDN'T be dating.
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Is It Ever OK To Try To Pick Up Women On Social Media? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Sep 6, 2024 - As people abandon dating apps it seems as though more people are meeting on Insta and Snapchat. Is it ok to try to pick up women on social media, now?
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Will I Just Never Be Ready For Sex? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
They have a vivid fantasy life and a number of kinks, but they've never been attracted to other people. Will they just never be ready to have sex?
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I Think The Stripper Really DOES Like Me. What Do I Do? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He knows it's a cliche, but he feels like he had a REAL connection with a dancer at the strip club. Is it possible that she genuinely likes him?
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Develop Your Lifestyle - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - Dating success isn't about looks or money, it's about what you have going for you. Develop an attractive lifestyle and attract amazing women into your life.
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Private Coaching - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Jan 13, 2026 - Dating in the 21st Century can be a confusing, frustrating time. It can feel like everybody else has gotten the handbook that you didn’t. Plus: it can all be...
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How Do I Find The Courage To Love Again? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's been single for years and he's been fighting off despair and depression. How can he bring himself to be open to falling in love again?
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being Bitter About Rejection? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
When he was ugly, women treated him with contempt. Now that he's hot, he can't trust them. How can he overcome his bitterness over having been rejected?
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How Do I Tell The Difference Between Flirting and Professional "Niceness"? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’m a single female in her mid-20s and I went to a new dentist, who might be in his late-20s/early-30s, for an appointment the other day. He...
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Building Bulletproof Confidence - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Apr 6, 2026 - Confidence may be sexy… but first you need to know how to find yours. Building Bulletproof Confidence is your guide to developing your true confident self....
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I'm Trying To Be More Social, So Why Don't People Want to Talk To Me? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's been working on improving his social skills and meeting new people. Why is he struggling to get people to engage with him when he chats them up?
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A Gentleman's Guide To Not Being An Asshole - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - The default state of
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Overcome The Bitterness? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - The pain of rejection is still eating away at him. How can he learn to let go and overcome the bitterness he's feeling before it consumes him?
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I STOP Being Poly? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - He discovered he was interested in polyamory, until his girlfriend shut it down. How can he learn to give up his desire and go back to being monogamous?
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How Did I Ruin A Relationship Before It Even Started? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Their first date was amazing... but their second date never happened, and he's sure it's his fault. How did he screw up what should have been a sure thing?
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Dying To Be A Man - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Aug 9, 2020 - It’s said that times of crisis and trouble are what reveal someone’s true character. That we are most authentically ourselves in the times when we are tested,...
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Why It's So Difficult To Make Positive Changes - Paging Dr. NerdLove
You can be happy or you can be miserable. So why do so many people resist changes that would make them happier? Here's how you can get out of your own way.
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The Value of Authenticity - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - Authenticity can be difficult, but the benefits it brings to your relationships are immense. Here's how to find your truth and to live with authenticity.
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I’m Doing All The Things Women Say They Want, So Why Am I Still Single? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He researched what women say they want in a man and tried to become that guy. After all that work, he's no closer to getting a date. What is he doing wrong?
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I Have An Amazing Life. Why Am I Still Struggling To Meet Women? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He has everything women say they want. People think he's incredibly popular and has no problem getting dates. So why is he still single?
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Episode #68 - What Do Women Want in a Man? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 1, 2018 - Beliefs in false myths about what women find attractive is a huge source of stress and anxiety for men. This week,we're going to bust a few dating myths and...
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I'm Handsome, Charismatic And Successful. Why Am I Still Lonely? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's tall, good looking and has a great job, but he has no friends. Why is he successful at work but fails at making real relationships?
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Episode #132 — The Secret To Being Successful With Women - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Here’s something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is “naturally” good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to...
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A Man's Guide To Improving Your Emotional IQ - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Oct 23, 2017 - Emotional intelligence is an important toolset for connecting with people... but it's underdeveloped in men. Here's how to improve your emotional IQ.
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This Is How You Break Your Self-Limiting Beliefs - Paging Dr. NerdLove
It's time to let go of the beliefs that hold you back from success. Here's how to break your self-limiting beliefs… for good.
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The Secret Origin of Dr. NerdLove - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Nov 5, 2022 - Who Is Harris O’Malley? Harris O’Malley is an internationally recognized author, advice columnist and dating coach, who’s syndicated column Ask Dr. NerdLove is...
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I'm Still Struggling To Meet People And I Don't Know Why! - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He has the qualities that women say they want and his friends think he should be a ladykiller. So why can't he make friends, never mind find dates?
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Submit A Dating Question - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Feb 9, 2023 - Got Dating Problems? Ask Dr. NerdLove! Do you have problems in your love life? Are you struggling with love, sex or relationships? Do need some advice to help...
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When Should I Tell People I'm Dating That I'm Autistic? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's been bullied and rejected because he's autistic. Is it better to be up front about being autistic with women he's dating or to mask it until later?
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Episode #79 - Men and the Epidemic of Loneliness - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Men are dealing with an epidemic of loneliness and isolation and it's literally killing us. But men have a hard time finding and fostering emotionally close...
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What Makes A Man Attractive to Women? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
He thinks he has a handle on what makes a man desirable. His female friends disagree completely. What REALLY makes a man more attractive to women?
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How Do I Keep The Spark in my Long Distance Relationship? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve found myself in a bit of a spot. Through these trying times, I was able to connect with someone and the chemistry is definitely there....
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The 5 Common Mistakes That Ruin Dating For Men - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Dating should be fun. Done right, it’s a blast. There’s a thrill in meeting someone awesome and getting to know them. There’s the excitement of discovering the...
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Meet Women Effortlessly - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Apr 24, 2017 - How often do you wish that you could meet women without having to work at it? Here's how you can build a life that will naturally attract amazing women.
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How To Handle Your Inconvenient Emotions - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - We're all emotional beings, but sometimes our emotions get the best of us. Here's how to keep those inconvenient emotions from controlling you.
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What To Do When You've Been Cheated On - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Mar 10, 2017 - Being cheated on is a painful betrayal. But what do you do in the aftermath? Is it possible to fix the relationship afterwards, and should you even try?
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Podcasts Archives - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Paging Dr. NerdLove – the Love and Sex Advice Podcast
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I Was Ready To Move In With My Boyfriend. Now I'm Having Second Thoughts. - Paging Dr. NerdLove
They were making plans to move in together. Now some serious lifestyle conflicts are getting in the way. Is living separately the answer?
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Did I Fall Out of Love Because of My Anxiety? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
His anxiety attacks got so bad that now, even talking to his girlfriend causes him stress. Did anxiety make him fall out of love, or was it something more?
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